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This is one of the most sought-after arrangements when a couple new to polyamory looks to open their relationship. Couples usually discover such a woman is almost impossible to find. This Web site explains why. So, somebody called you a Unicorn Hunter? Edited essay by David Noble.
So, you just posted on this really cool Poly forum that your friend told you about. You posted that you and your partner are ready to open up your relationship and find a special person to add to it. For some reason, a ton of people seemed upset at your post and started replying with a bunch of hostile, snarky comments that didn’t describe you at all. They told you that you were doing it wrong, that you are bad for wanting to find someone, and that you should go read a book. Wait, I thought these people were Poly?
Aren’t they supposed to be open and accepting? Dyad, to make a Triad. Making a Triad, isn’t that what Poly is? What the hell is wrong with that? Why did all of these people have such a major stick up their butt? If you have a conversation with a new-to-Poly couple about what they are looking for and start asking some probing questions, many answers come out that are pretty consistent.
People who are in this position have very predictable challenges and concerns. Well, only you can answer that. The fact that you are here, reading this, implies that you care. People can actually be perpetuating unhealthy, dysfunctional standards and practices while being completely unaware that they are part of the problem. If anyone has ever described the idea of societal privilege to you, it’s kinda like that.